One thing I’ve noticed in the world is that we have gotten so used to average. From relationships down to job titles we do not encourage anything that might be a challenge or promote change. We are so average that everything you choose now is left or right, black or white, yes or no. What happened to the term undecided or no preference?
I sit and wonder why this might be, and I’ve finally come to a conclusion.
We settle for average or less because of the looming fear of the unknown. Many people will stay in toxic relationships for decades because they fear a life alone. We will stay in an unprofessional work environment because work longevity is said to determine your quality as an employee.
When you really take a step back, these examples are simple scare tactics that are taught and reinforced to keep us stagnant. No, I don’t want to be alone either, but having someone by your side for decades shouldn’t be what identifies you as happy and in love, just like staying at a job for 10+ years doesn’t identify you as successful.
I know that it can be very difficult to step out of your comfort zone and try new things, but this is a key step when it comes to growth. If you’re here looking for ways to become more than average here’s my advice…
Do what’s best for you! Your journey is not going to be a straight and narrow path as most would have you believe! It doesn’t have to follow a predictable schedule or pattern either!!
You literally only get one life, and the only person who should control it is you! I’m not saying leave your relationship or job because you’re facing a few obstacles. I am saying, sit and evaluate the situation to determine whether or not it’s worth your time.
Realize that you don’t have to be sure of any decisions that you make in regards to your future because like the world, you should be constantly evolving.
Becoming more than average involves surrounding yourself with those who accept and expect more!
You’re going to make decisions that don’t always pan out for the better. Find the silver-lining in the situation, and move forward.
It doesn’t matter what career path you choose, know that you are replaceable, so prioritize the ones who love you.
Lastly, if you were once okay with a situation but now you’re ready for change, accept it with open arms! Cut ties with whatever it is that might be holding you back, and embrace the NEW and unknown!
Aleisha Kay
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